Writing you own vows, 'The How To' & 'The Not To's'. Get the best 'I do

Writing you own vows can be a huge challenge.  Just like in Married At First Sight, it's the moment you can make that great impression, give a well summed up elevator pitch on your life together.   Your time to shine, and declare your love! So no pressure ;)  

You're not the only one!

To start with, hours of googling aint going to work, it might give you ideas but nobody knows your relationship like you do! Make sure you talk to your partner about what kind of tone you are going for.  Will it be super